My Lover Dumped Me Just Bcos His Wife Found Out About Us

When my husband died five years ago, one of the people who stood by me was an ex-boyfriend. We had a really passionate relationship which later fizzled out. When I became lonely – I had just one child by my husband – my ex took me out and we soon started a relationship.

Though I was looking at just the s*x, my ex said he loved me and would support me in whatever I do.

Some months ago, his wife found out and she made a lot of noise about it...


She made life hell for my ex (her husband) so that he had no option than to break off our relationship. I’m really heart- broken and feel bereaved all over again.

What can I do to help myself? Should I continue seeing him in secret without his wife knowing again?