Actress Empress Njamah while speaking with Sun opened up about the time when she dated a man whose physic was far from the man of her dreams, suffering abuse from singer Timaya, and moving away from that relationship. She also talked about how she felt like running away after that infamous phonographic photo of a woman resembling her leaked online and how Mercy Johnson encouraged her to look beyond it.
I have always craved for a particular physic of the man of my dreams but I ended up dating the reverse (Laughter). While we were growing up, a lot of us had this particular statistic of a person you desire but at the end of the day, it is the opposite you get.
Still wondering who she's talking about here...? You are free to make a guess *Hehehehe*
On when she was in an abusive relationship with Timaya…
That’s something I don’t want to talk about.
But when asked to advise other women abusive relationships...
If you don’t use your up but your down, you will probably die before your time. Let me tell you the truth, if a man hits you once he will hit you again! There is nothing like ‘let me manage him because I love him; I will be with him till he changes.’ It is only a weak man that hits a woman. There are men who can’t handle stuff and so they vent it on the woman. Once a man hits you, he will hit you again.
But he dedicated a song to you?
Well, doing a song for me at that point still has nothing to do with a lot of things that happened later. I think there are better ways of showing appreciation.
When asked if she cries despite seeming like a strong woman...
Yes I do.
On the experience that made her cry...
That was when they had this bogus pornographic picture online and said it was me. I felt the way any normal person should feel. I was angry and frustrated so I ran away! We all have our own way of tacking challenges and trust me, I have mine. I just wanted to be alone for sometime so I used the opportunity to take a break. I can’t forget what Mercy Johnson did that day. She was part of the people who encouraged me to carry on with my life. She called me and said ‘sister, life continues.’
On tattoos...
Lots of people can swear that I have tattoos on my body because I was known for colourful hair and nails so lots of people thought I had tattoos as well; I can’t give myself the mark of The Beast.
Are you saying tattoos are the mark of the Beast?
I don’t want to say what a lot of people will misconstrue but I don’t have to draw anything on my body to prove a point; for me, tattoos are a no no.
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